Jealousy - Is That Really So Bad?

People often tell me I look good in green. I have light green eyes, and supposedly they look even greener when I sport a dark green sweater or shirt.

But no one, including me, looks smart or cute in the putrid green of jealousy.

And I hate to have to report this to you, my friend, but I've been stubbornly decked out in that very same gross green as of late. I've been jealous.

And I haven't just been seething with jealousy on the inside; I've been acting on it, living in it, speaking out of it, and even eating on it! Shoot, I've been swimming in the dark green cesspool of jealousy and I wreak with it's pungent odor.

I'm so glad we're friends and I can tell you that. It's awful, I know. 

Or is it?

Is a little jealousy really all that bad? To be honest, when I first caught a glimpse of myself sporting the green garb of jealousy in the mirror, I didn't really think it looked all that bad on me. So what if I resented someone a little, longed for what they had, and pouted because I didn't have what they were enjoying?

But little by little jealousy began to eat me up from the inside out. Jealousy does that, you know. It stirs up feelings of emptiness, boils over into resentment, and eventually burns and devours your relationships.

Acts 7:9 reminds me that jealousy caused Jacob's sons to sell their brother Joseph into slavery, inflicting unnecessary pain on their aging dad and creating years of dysfunction in their family. In my own life I've watched jealousy

First Corinthians 13:4 reminds us that love has nothing to do with jealousy. If we love, we will not only refrain from treating the other person with jealous actions, but we will not even allow the seeds of jealousy to take root. How do you keep jealousy from taking root in your life? Good question; I'm working on that. I hate the sick feeling my jealousy left me with. While it may "feel good" to wallow in the cesspool of jealousy for a little while; there is no joy in swallowing the stuff. And eventually, if you're swimming around in it, you will swallow it!

But here are a few things I've gleaned from God's Word recently on how to keep jealousy from taking over:
Is jealousy really all that bad? Yeah, it really is. Take it from me, you don't want to go there. Jealousy, like all other sins, is a destroyer...of dreams, families, ministries, friendships, careers, churches and joy. This is one green garment you don't want to wear!

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